Some people don't realize how much power the words they say have over people.
When you constantly tell a person how much you admire them and that nothing could get in the way of them fighting to be with you. I honestly have no idea what's the point in saying something you don't mean. Most people who say they will fight to be with you usually turn out to be cowards that no longer know how to fight for love instead they're afraid of it. Afraid of the idea of being in love and everything that has to do with it. They are scared of letting someone in, letting them down. People think if they don't fight for the person they won't have to overcome their fear. They won't have to try anymore because trying to be with someone and working out problems is just to difficult. If you're always afraid how are you ever going to experience the amazing feeling of being in love, yes there may be disadvantages to it but I truly feel that everyone should at least once be in love. Don't just be in love with a person. fight to be with them. I once got told all these things to make me believe that no matter what he'd be there fighting for us but at one point he just gave up. Total coward. What went wrong that I can't process? You can never trust anyone when they say they'll always fight for you. I know from experience that when someone says they'll be there fighting to be with you no matter what has happened, you got to make them prove that they will actually do it, that they truly love you that they'd go to extreme lengths to be with you. Don't be with someone who would give up after one argument because I've learnt the hard way, no relationships are easy. Then there are other people who feel as if once a conflict comes up in their lives they shut everyone out of their lives in order to not face their problems. Don't be that way.
